Planning a funeral or celebration of life service
Losing a loved one is a difficult and emotional time, and as a celebrant, my role is to help you plan a funeral that truly reflects the life and personality of your loved one.
There are many things to deal with after losing a loved one and it can become overwhelming. Here are some practical things that you will need to consider.
Choose a funeral home: The first step in planning a funeral is to choose a funeral home. Look for a funeral home that is reputable and has a good track record. Read reviews, ask friends and family for recommendations, and visit the funeral home to see if it meets your needs.
Decide on the type of service: There are many different types of funeral services to choose from, including a traditional funeral, a graveside service, a memorial service, or a celebration of life. Consider your loved one's wishes and preferences when deciding on the type of service.
Select a casket or urn: You will need to decide whether your loved one will be buried or cremated. This decision may be based on your loved one's wishes, religious beliefs, or cultural traditions. If your loved one is being buried, you will need to select a casket. If your loved one is being cremated, you will need to select an urn. Choose a casket or urn that reflects your loved one's personality and preferences. If they are being cremated, did they wish to have their ashes scattered?
Plan the service: Once you've decided on the type of service, you can start planning the details. This includes selecting music, choosing readings or poems, and deciding on who will speak at the service. As your celebrant, I will support you with ideas and recommendations to ensure the service is a fitting send-off for your loved one.
Notify family and friends: It's important to notify family and friends about the funeral arrangements. You can do this by sending out an obituary or making phone calls.
Consider the reception: After the funeral service, you may want to have a reception for family and friends. Consider the location, food, and drinks.
Manage the finances: Funerals can be expensive, so it's important to manage the finances carefully. Consider setting a budget and sticking to it.
Seek support: Planning a funeral can be emotional and overwhelming. Don't be afraid to seek support from friends, family, or a grief counselor.
Legal requirements: Your funeral director will take care of the legal requirements, ensuring that you know what you also need to do. You can find out more on the Department of Internal Affairs website.
